I think it is important to establish a collegial relationship between us.
Reading the riot act for questions that may actually have a good point, but may be worded in a way that is not appropriate to the moderators, does not display an attitude of trying to pull each other up.
Maybe guiding the inquisitor to clarify, and working with them a bit to show them how to reach your standards, would be better for everyone concerned.
After all, alleach of us on this site areis very interested in the same things and. more so than not, we are all like-minded in our love of understanding our universe.