I progressively feel that a typical user interested in the mathematical-physics tag, like me, is not welcomed in the community; not to mention, that at least as I can tell, the community is not explicit enough on exactly what is acceptable, or not, under this tag.
Personal examples:
My question "Geometric intuition for $\mathcal{L}^{-m} \oplus \mathcal{L}^{m} \rightarrow T^{2}$ Calabi-Yau threefolds was posted and voted-to-close four times on this site (PSE); at the end, it was migrated to Math Stack Exchange despite of the fact that I've received (and accepted) a really wonderful answer from a PSE user. My question manifestly was about the "physics way" to understand a mathematical idea used in physics papers (actually submitted to arXiv under the high energy physics label and no reference to mathematics) by famous physicists (Vafa and Jafferis). Honestly my question was about math, but, my point is that I consider my question as legitimate under the mathematical physics tag in PSE and not off-topic as the treatment it received from the community suggested.
I offered an answer, "Connectedness on Special Kaehler manifolds". Again, this question is about a mathematical topic (special geometry) discovered by physicists, relevant for (black hole-) physics that is virtually not discussed by mathematicians at all. A moderator in the question comments immediately pointed that this question was off-topic in this site. To me, this is also a legitimate question in PSE.
I had to close some drafts before posting the question "References on mathematical stacks for a string theory student". In all of them I received comments saying that this was off-topic in this site, until a version of the question was considered "acceptable" but still received comments saying: "this seems off-topic" or "I don't understand what you are saying"; despite of the fact that I specify that I'm a physics oriented student and my question was manifestly about the math-background needed to understand physics papers, written by physicists and that I didn't wanted an answer from a mathematician.
Finally, I have the possibly subjective perception that the community was far more tolerant in this respect before I started to post in PSE (four years ago). For example, I find the following questions and answers nice and not evidently different from the examples I gave, except that they are apparently on-topic 1. To be honest, I find very discouraging and ambiguous the treatment a question in this tag receives.
Then my question is: How can I understand better what a permissible mathematical-physics question is? Is this a generalized attitude against the mathematical-physics community?